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 No.44907

Really annoyed that I'm oncall and working overtime on my birthday. It's not like I had any plans to spend it doing anything special so I guess its more so the principle of the matter that its been like this for the past few months with no end in sight.

Sorry if this thread doesn't belong, feel free to resume your regularily scheduled posting

 No.44909

>>44907
That's unfortunate, are you able to take time off the following week instead?

 No.44912

Hello,

Today is a special day because today is a nenfren's birthday.
Please lets all wish our nenfren a happy birthday.

Happy birthday!

birthday_card.jpg

 No.44914

Happy birthday nenfriend

 No.44916

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>>44907
Happy Birthday! Sorry about the overtime.

 No.44918

Happy birthday OP

I have to vent that I couldn't post on nen properly lately. I have a lot of problems but none deserve a mention here. I still lurk for cutes

 No.44919

>>44918
That's okay, post when you want to.

 No.44921

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Thanks frens

>>44909
Not really.

 No.44923

>>44921
Sigh.

 No.44924

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>>44919
It is not okay. I must share cutes so my nenfriends can feel the joy of seeing cutes as much as I do
Ganbarimasu!

And correct me if I'm wrong but I have seen a bote being posted that was almost like a lifeline to me. I might be just imagining it, but I feel like someone reached out to me. Can I leave such friends just out there and getting no cutes? I can not. Unacceptable. I'm going to try harder from now!

 No.44935

I wrote a self-loathing, self-deprecating, mean-spirited comment on my own steam profile and someone must've reported it because it silently got deleted. WTF!??

 No.44936

>>44935
Please don't think poorly of yourself. You will gain nothing from it.

 No.44937

>>44936
>You will gain nothing from it.
I think that's a bit absolutist. I'm calmer, decompressing through venting. I find it can be insightful too, the introspection it demands. I also get attention and sympathy, occasionally even endearment, though these are secondary to the catharsis.

But yes, it's also self-destructive. Sometimes it feels like there aren't many options, so you just play the cards you have at the time.

 No.44945

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i've been struggling to find balance in life and succeed

 No.44946

>>44945
Same here, instead I just take it too easy and choose to think about balance some other day.

 No.44968

Sigh

 No.48260

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I don't mean to be negative, but I need to get it out, and for reasons, I don't have anywhere else I can post it. Sorry nens.
I have a friend that has become difficult to deal with. He's not a bad person. On the contrary, he's someone I trust greatly. The issue is, he exhausts me.
Social situations and even just speaking makes me super tired, not that I hate them or anything. As a result, I need to take breaks from time to time. Unfortunately, my friend doesn't have very many, if any, other friends. He requires more attention than I'm willing to give. To make things worse, there's constant banter coming from him. I don't mind a bit of banter, but it gets annoying pretty quick.
He's also been obsessed with a former friend of his that left him a few months ago at this point. Still won't stop talking about him. I don't understand why this guy holds grudges like this, when the the other person doesn't evem think about him.
I don't want to drop the guy, and really, I don't have the option to. It's just a pain sometimes.

 No.48261

>>48260
Do you think they'd appreciate being told directly how you're feeling? Are they just clueless, have you had to explain things to them in the past?

I don't think you should give up on them, but I also don't have the full context. Sorry nenfriend, this sounds difficult.

 No.48262

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>>48260
Oh. That's one of my nightmares. Being a tiresome friend. I'm really anxious about it.
I'm not sure what you should do, honestly. But if I were told by my friend I'm being annoying, I guess I'd be grateful for their honesty.
I have a friend I try not to talk to anymore. Because I have been a NEET for a few years now while they work their ass off. They work a lot and I have nothing to talk to them about besides anime and manga. They are into anime and manga too, but I still can't help but feel I'm overstaying my welcome whenever I get to exchange a few words with them.

 No.48263

>>48261
Yeah, I've explained things in the past. What he says is more of the same. He has shared that he believes he may be autistic, which may explain some of the difficulties.
I'm not giving up on him. Rather, I can't as I've taken some small responsibilities related to him, and I cannot, in good conscious, abandon that. I could resign; however it would harm not only my friend but others.
To be quite frank. I'd like to wash my hands of my past mistakes and current presence on the internet. I'm not notable or anything, but given some information and a small bit of dedication, I don't think it'd be difficult for things to blow up. One small misstep that draws the ire of the wrong person and things would be over for me. Accepting a position with any board, no matter how harmless, on the webring was very foolish.
To do this, I'll have to cut ties with the foolish trail I've left.
Eh, I don't mean to complain or rant. It's a more complicated issue now that I've put in a bit of thought.

 No.48264

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>>48262
In most cases, I'm in the same shoes as you. I just give them space. I'll start a conversation occasionally, but I won't press it. Just try to be courteous of your friend, as it sounds like you have been doing. It can be hard to find someone you enjoy talking about your interests with, regardless of who you are.

 No.48276

>>48263
I'll always be here to read and try and comment if you want. Thanks for sharing with us friend.

 No.48277

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>>48276
My now former friend has made his move, and so I've made mine. He accused me of lying when I wasn't, and that's not something I can tolerate.
I'm going to put it behind me now, so Kakashi Nenpo won't have to deal with my personal blogs. I want to take it easy at my new home.

 No.48285

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My only friends don't care that I am a NEET and they would never accuse me of lying because they can't understand what I say anyway.

 No.48297

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I still get mad if I remember shows with shitty endings like Nisekoi and Golden time

 No.48298

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>>48297
Both of those endings were great, the best ship sailed

 No.48299

Really, if you are going to get mad about shows it should be ones with awful pairing endingslike the classics True Tears, Shuffle, and Mashiroiro Symphony. Or some more recent examples like Fuuka and Saekano

 No.48300

>>48298
Plain wrong. How is some silverspoon better than a childhood friend country girl and how is some half ameri better than a cute girl with a japanese sweet shop? Wrong wrong wrong wrong

 No.48303

>>48299
The only thing I liked about Shuffle was the ending.

 No.48493

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A certain imageboard seems to have died, and it's probably my fault. Feels like shit because it wasn't a bad bunch of posters, and I used to frequent it.
I gave the last little push that was needed for it to go under.
I guess this really marks the end of a period in my life, as pathetic as that sounds. I wonder if I'll ever be absolved from this guilt I feel.

 No.48525

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>>48493
e-mail baka and tell him you're sorry

 No.48528

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>>48493
>>48525
Is this about the Yakui site? If so, please undo it.

 No.48529

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>>48528
???
a website dedicated to yakui?
gibbe link

i was talking about baka.worst (formerly baka.best)

 No.48530

>>48528
Nah, not Yakui. Sucks that went down too, but I don't know anything about what happened with it. I was talking about /kind/.

 No.49758

much better birthday this year, still oncall but nothing bad happened and i enjoyeed a weekend pizza and pokemon



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